the talk....
so granny decided we all needed to talk about the issues we were having with our neighbors. issues discused here in earlier posts. the discussion was filled with tales of other people being unhappy with Starroge and my behaviers thus far. the cinversation was amusing on my part....wow can Starroge make a piont and hold his own.
granny informed us that some were of the opinion that we were rude in some social situations. well yes I supose we are. being invited to Family meals where we are not included in the confersation. we eather lack knoledge or imput on the subject or are just plain talked over. me Im used to being ignored and talked over so I have made it a habbit to not speek untill spoken to. our habbits of getting up from our meal and having a smoke...well we are rude for doing that. oh well tough shit. its always fun to sit and watch other people talk and be bored.
we were informed that the neighbor thinks we are abusing our living situation and taking advantage of people. yes I dont have a job at the moment. yes I am working on that. no they dont see anything positive that is done only the negative of everything.
we have a male dog.... why this is an issue is beyond me. did you know that id a dog pees on a tire it ruins the tire? that one was beyond me but from what the neighbors say its fact. they dont acualy pay atention. my dog has never peed on a tire in his life but because he lifts his leg he is evil in there eyes. he is not a bad dog but is considered so because he is male. where they have room to talk about any animal is beyond me. my dog has manners sometimes he forgets but at least he has them. there dogs pee and shit wherever they like be it in the house or on the deck. there dog lucky is a sweet girl but is religated to her tiny fence alone. when she is out they call her bad for not listening. well DUH she is wanting atention cause they do shit with her. there lack of love for there animals saddens me to no end.
all this wouldnt have been so bad if they had just come to us with the issues instead of filling grannys head with the notion that it was her job to fix it. she wants Starroge to be fake to apease the problem. fake is something he is NOT and will never be. he is honest... brutaly sometimes but honest none the less. if he has an issue you will know it. after all the time spent talking to granny she still couldnt come to see that starroge is not going to be falce and fake just to apease her life and comfort.
we were asked why we couldnt help around the house more. ok a couple of points here she just doesnt get. starroge doesnt thing on a level of domesticity. rutine household things escape him due to the fact of no one ever askes him to help. on the few ocassions they have he does for them. we offered to set up a schedule to help with chores and her first words were no. she doesnt want it to be forced lol. our point was its not a habbit so expecting it ocasionaly wasnt going to happen cause paterns of helping wernt established.
the most troubling thing is that no one understands Starroge or the way he thinks. they all think he is just inconsiderate, unfeeling and calouse. ok so all those things are seen alot hehe. what they dont see is why they are there. he is a logical person. he doesnt think with feelings in mind just logic. everyone is looking at him like he is a feeling being. they miss the beauty of him being different from them. he is a wonderfull person and makes alot of sence if you know how he thinks. they all refuse to even atempt to look at the world the way he does so all they see is some one they want to change to make like them. it makes me sad realy. why cant they learn that he is who he is and just leave it at that. no they want him to be a sensitive and lie to everyone so they are happy. Im sorry but it would be hell living with him if he was. he is honest and that brings a simplicity to him and life around him. its to bad that others cant see the positives to him. its to bad that people around us are blind to anything but there own feelings and wants.
Ill probly have more on this later...the saga continues.
love and light
granny informed us that some were of the opinion that we were rude in some social situations. well yes I supose we are. being invited to Family meals where we are not included in the confersation. we eather lack knoledge or imput on the subject or are just plain talked over. me Im used to being ignored and talked over so I have made it a habbit to not speek untill spoken to. our habbits of getting up from our meal and having a smoke...well we are rude for doing that. oh well tough shit. its always fun to sit and watch other people talk and be bored.
we were informed that the neighbor thinks we are abusing our living situation and taking advantage of people. yes I dont have a job at the moment. yes I am working on that. no they dont see anything positive that is done only the negative of everything.
we have a male dog.... why this is an issue is beyond me. did you know that id a dog pees on a tire it ruins the tire? that one was beyond me but from what the neighbors say its fact. they dont acualy pay atention. my dog has never peed on a tire in his life but because he lifts his leg he is evil in there eyes. he is not a bad dog but is considered so because he is male. where they have room to talk about any animal is beyond me. my dog has manners sometimes he forgets but at least he has them. there dogs pee and shit wherever they like be it in the house or on the deck. there dog lucky is a sweet girl but is religated to her tiny fence alone. when she is out they call her bad for not listening. well DUH she is wanting atention cause they do shit with her. there lack of love for there animals saddens me to no end.
all this wouldnt have been so bad if they had just come to us with the issues instead of filling grannys head with the notion that it was her job to fix it. she wants Starroge to be fake to apease the problem. fake is something he is NOT and will never be. he is honest... brutaly sometimes but honest none the less. if he has an issue you will know it. after all the time spent talking to granny she still couldnt come to see that starroge is not going to be falce and fake just to apease her life and comfort.
we were asked why we couldnt help around the house more. ok a couple of points here she just doesnt get. starroge doesnt thing on a level of domesticity. rutine household things escape him due to the fact of no one ever askes him to help. on the few ocassions they have he does for them. we offered to set up a schedule to help with chores and her first words were no. she doesnt want it to be forced lol. our point was its not a habbit so expecting it ocasionaly wasnt going to happen cause paterns of helping wernt established.
the most troubling thing is that no one understands Starroge or the way he thinks. they all think he is just inconsiderate, unfeeling and calouse. ok so all those things are seen alot hehe. what they dont see is why they are there. he is a logical person. he doesnt think with feelings in mind just logic. everyone is looking at him like he is a feeling being. they miss the beauty of him being different from them. he is a wonderfull person and makes alot of sence if you know how he thinks. they all refuse to even atempt to look at the world the way he does so all they see is some one they want to change to make like them. it makes me sad realy. why cant they learn that he is who he is and just leave it at that. no they want him to be a sensitive and lie to everyone so they are happy. Im sorry but it would be hell living with him if he was. he is honest and that brings a simplicity to him and life around him. its to bad that others cant see the positives to him. its to bad that people around us are blind to anything but there own feelings and wants.
Ill probly have more on this later...the saga continues.
love and light
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